How to Find a Good Thai Girlfriend or Thai Wife

Every year again, there are many thousands of western man going to Thailand for a holiday, with the purpose to find a Thai girlfriend or a Thai wife. Most of the time they end up with a wrong woman, a Thai Bar girl or some prostitute. Those girls can be meet easy, where ever you go in Thailand and most of them do speak English.

The fact that you can meet prostitute every where in Thailand, does not mean all Thai woman or girls are prostitute.

Ask the western man, if they would like to marry or date a prostitute in their own country, all will say: NO! So can any one please explain me why they would like to date a Bar girl or prostitute in Thailand? Is this because no one know him? Is it easier? Is it cheaper than in their own country?

Seems like many western man coming to Thailand, don't have a clue how to meet good girls or where to meet them. And if they meet a good Thai girl, what will he talk about? Do they know how to treat Thai girls? Do not make the mistake to treat a Thai girl as you treat a western girl before you really know her.

For those coming to Thailand, to find a girlfriend or wife, I will try to explain how and what to do to meet a good Thai girlfriend or Thai wife.

Those who have been to Thailand and been in Bangkok or Pattaya, do know this. "Hello honey. How are you today? Do you want comany? I love you!"

Does it sound familier? well, when a girl start to talk to you like that, than that is not a good Thai girl at all!

So what is a good Thai girl? A good Thai girl, will not talk to you firts. When ever you go to Thailand, and a Thai girl talk to you first, than often she is not good. Well, of course that not goes for those working in shops, saloons etc.etc.

A Well brought up Thai girl, are taught never to talk to men first and for sure not to approach one. No matter if she try to persuade you its not truth, she is not a good Thai girl! Most good Thai girls are shy and they are reserved. It is you who have to approach them. Not the other way around.

Bars are not the right place to meet good girls. So where can you meet these good girls? The best place to meet good girls are shopping malls, coffee shops, bookstores. Often they hang out there. You will hardly see them alone. Thai girls tend to go around in groups. Do you have enough courage to talk to several woman at once? If so, than you can ask them to help you with something or ask for directions. Or incase you happen to be in a restaurant, you can ask help reading the menu.

Many Thais will love to help you, they are very helpful and some also like to practice English. Don't be surprised to hear lots of giggles and blushes. Between the gigles and blushes, there will always be one girl in the group who will help you and often talk to you more than the other girls.

Shopping malls and bookstores are also great places to meet some good Thai girls. Once have start the chat, you can always ask them to have a cup coffee to continue the chat. Most of them love Star Bucks, and there is plenty of them in Bangkok, if you happen to be there.

Have you met a nice Thai girl, than aks her out for dinner, if you want to see her again. I don't know any other place where people love to eat so much, and almost the entire day. Don't expect her to show up alone for dinner. A good Thai girl will always bring a friend or sister with her. Your first 2 or 3 dates, will always be with her friend, sister or some familie member. You are expected to pay for both of them.

When a Thai girl agrees to meet you for dinner alone, it is possible she is not a good girl.